Rainbow Tiers
I think he finally pushed too far.
you know that feeling you get when you realize that someone you really thought a lot of goes and says or does something that totally turns you off?
Like you think he's gorgeous until you see him pick his nose and eat it and BAM BLECH!!! (Not anyone I've ever dated!)
Or he insults a member of your family or a close friend who he has never met and you start to reevaluate what is important to you.
Hint: Perhaps not him...
You start to see that maybe the good does NOT outweight the bad in some instances.
Would you let him hit you physically? IF not then why do you let him do it emotionally...? You value your body over your mind?
So next time you are thinking about pushing those jabs aside you back up so they don't hit you
instead of just ducking.
Jesus said turn the other cheek. This is not what he meant.
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Just forgive him and move on. He is only going to cause you more and more pain because maybe that's all he knows how to do when handling problems...
Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."
Amen...(to S)
Problem is by forgiving him it softens my heart again and then i get stuck back in the same old place. Sometimes I think God gave our hearts the ability to harden as a self defense mechanism. Forgiveness is great when you are strong enough not to keep making the same mistakes over and over. I forgave him and now he wants to hang out and watch a movie. ARgh.
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